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Love heals community

I know a man — we will call him Michael — who is at war with the world. Michael’s night job is drink ing. He has been an alcoholic off and on the last several years. His father left when he was young, and his present parents ignore and blame him for every possible flaw. His best friends tease him into one-night stands. Michael finds his temporary fix on the bas ketball court or soccer field. “Fulfillment” never looked so broken. […]

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ExRated ‘character reviews’ hampers relationships

ExRated.com, according to its website, offers “character reviews” that help singles make informed dating choices, much in the same way restaurant and movie reviews serve as information sources for consumers. Users can anonymously rate individuals from one to five stars while analyzing personality traits, habits and other characteristics. The site claims the threat of a poor review will motivate people to be more courteous and thoughtful in their dating life. […]

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Up from the ashes

Ten years ago, smoke rose from the gaping chasm in the New York City sky­line. For a long time after, the images and memories of Sept. 11 left a gash in the psyche of anyone old enough to understand the tragedy. That day’s indelible imprint — one that has shaped so much in the decade since — left perhaps the most strik­ing effects on those of us who came of age in an era of terrorism, fear, para­noia and war. […]